I've been told I'm interesting looking and exotic, I have big eyes and a nice body but I don't look like a typical hottie, I don't think, where you just look at her and she looks like the girls in magazines. I used to care heaps when I was little, I wanted to look like a barbie or something but now I thought I liked looking exotic and different. Then I went out a few nights ago for the first time in months, and I was really excited to go out, felt hot and everything, but then just no one approached me, and it made me just feel like sh*t! I can't go up to a guy, I'm too scared of being rejected, so how can I get guys to approach me? Sometimes when I go out with friends, I find that my typical looking friends, even if I don't think theyre amazingly hot, somehow guys make eye contact with them when they approach our group and just ignore me most of the time. So what I wanted to know was, do I look unaproachable or something? And girls, have you had a similar issue? Is there a resolve or answer to this!
Do I look unapproachable?
What Guys Said 4
You would have to be super hot to not be approachable. Only way to tell is by photo.
There is just no way to tell from a written discription.
Also, it has a lot to do with attitude. If you seem friendly then you will be approached more. Just like you don't want to be rejected, neither do we. So if we notice an attractive girl, but she looks like she will be unfriendly well ignore her.
I have a really hot friend that's never hit on. She's italian and just has kind of a mean look, even though she's really cool.1
You went out where? And being rejected is part of life. Don't be afraid of it. And also, guys are much more likely to approach you if you're by yourself. A pack is intimating.1
Do you smile at all? I can't smile for no reason, and I know it puts people off from so much as just talking to me.0
What Girls Said 1
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If just ego boosting to get replies of guys are too scared because you're pretty replies?
How is anyone to know if you look unapproachable when you haven't described your behavior?
Nope I never had that issue that whole guys don't approach hot girls is bs.
I get approached by hot guys, rich guys, hot &rich guys from my social circle & dinosaurs (old guys) from random approaches.
What do you do that makes you think you look unapproachable?
Id like to know.
I'm not joking.
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