Why hasn't he called?
He hasn't called me for three days, why? We have been dating for two months. You know how excited you both can get. He called me everyday, wishing me a good morning. We would see each other 3x a week. But now last time I hung out with him was a week ago on my birthday. And we haven't made any plans because he got sick and had family come from out of town. We haven't spoke for three days. I left him a message yesterday, and he hasn't called me yet!!! Whats going on?
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What Experts Said
Most Helpful Opinion
Since you've been dating for two months and he usually called everyday, I would suspect that he feels there is a solid foundation to the relationship communication wise. And that means a little break of a few days isn't fatal.
Has anything bad happened? Any argument, any difference of opinion? With it having only been a little while, I think it's too soon to call it trouble.
I know it's worrisome - especially as he used to call everyday, but I wouldn't sweat it yet. He could still call tonight.(:
What Guys Said 2
Either he's lost interest and maybe found somebody else, or he's started to learn 'the game'. I'm willing to bet it's the latter and he is probably playing hard to get. I used to be a 'nice guy' and call everyday, show my concern, listen, etc but I learned that women aren't attracted to that type of guy, and after I started being more confident and assertive my luck in the dating game changed drastically. He may very well have recently learned what I learned and maybe he's implementing the philosophy behind 'the game'. I can't really tell you any more without more info about the type of guy he is, etc. I hope the best for ya, Kyle