He says he doesn't use it and hasn't touched it in a year. I found his fb because I wanted to know what his default was. (some people have funny defaults). It's an old photo and his hair hasn't been like that in a couple of months.
I don't mind it at all. If he doesn't use it then I can believe him right? Right. However my cousin says it's weird whenever I bring my boyfriend up to him. He says 'everyone uses fb' and 'as long as you have it, you use it. Doesn't matter if you do'n't use it use it..'
We met in spring and we didn't date till a couple of months after and doing the ldr right now because he moved back to his home town.
No, not weird. lol I actually know a couple who are really close to me.. they've been dating for over 6 years before they put it on Facebook, just because neither of them uses it. And they keep saying, "oh I should probably start using it because everyones on it.." but they just dont.
If you trust him in all other ways, then believe him in this too.
I'm the same way I almost never use Facebook and when I do its to chat with people and just look at stuff while I'm bored/waiting. I very RARELY post updates on it. If that's the case with him then he's probably just embarrassed because you'll have way more friends than him on there and seem more popular/social.
He and you should be friends on Facebook even if you both or one of you does not use it that often. If your boyfriend has an account and you have it too, then you should be in his friend list. Ask him to add you normally. And if he refuses then there is something that he has got to hide from you.