You can ask her what she likes doing in her spare time, or you can stick to the basics like favorites and dislikes. But those would only be asked within the first couple of conversations, after that and you get to know each other better, you can ask more personal questions.
dont delve into her personal life, and don't get really deep all in getting to know her, just ask simple questions, like "whats the craziest thing youve ever done" or "what would you do if... and then ask something based off that"
getting to know her personally is for the dates, and all that good stuff
remember, girls are a great thing, but if they feel pressured or scared, they run, and god knows we don't want that, haha