How often should you Facebook message a crush?

I like this girl on Facebook...we have met a few times at the clubs. But I don't have her number. How often should I message her if I see her online?


What's Your Opinion?


Most Helpful Opinion

  • Depends if she is messaging you back. If she is, and seems responsive, I'd say have a good convo, then wait a few days, make her eager to hear from you. And if you haven't already, ask for her number! That way you know if you are wasting your time or not.

What Girls Said 10

  • Once.

  • I don"t have a fb account but I had it.I never did.But for you maybe 2-3 times a week

  • Never it'll seem as you are stalking herMeet her one day and just simply ask her out

  • None. Unless he does that. A lot

  • it depends

  • a couple of times if she seems interested

  • If she's not replying then stop doing it..

  • Once every two weeks. You don't want to seem creepy

  • once or twice so you know she got it then no more and get her number

  • Once and get her number through there..I know many people who don't spend all that much time on Facebook so don't do it a lot.

What Guys Said 1

  • You should message her often.