How often should you Facebook message a crush?

I like this girl on Facebook...we have met a few times at the clubs. But I don't have her number. How often should I message her if I see her online?


What's Your Opinion?


Most Helpful Opinion

  • Depends if she is messaging you back. If she is, and seems responsive, I'd say have a good convo, then wait a few days, make her eager to hear from you. And if you haven't already, ask for her number! That way you know if you are wasting your time or not.

What Girls Said 10

  • I don"t have a fb account but I had it.I never did.But for you maybe 2-3 times a week

  • once or twice so you know she got it then no more and get her number

  • Never it'll seem as you are stalking herMeet her one day and just simply ask her out

  • Once every two weeks. You don't want to seem creepy

  • Once and get her number through there..I know many people who don't spend all that much time on Facebook so don't do it a lot.

  • If she's not replying then stop doing it..

  • Once.

  • a couple of times if she seems interested

  • it depends

  • None. Unless he does that. A lot

What Guys Said 1

  • You should message her often.