We broke up, but he's texting me again... REALLY CONFUSING?
Me and my boyfriend of 9 months just broke up about a week and a half ago.
This was pretty much why we broke up:
We dated during the school year when we lived in the same dorm building.
But now he's transferring to another school in the fall. We planned to spend the summer together and travel together a little bit before he left.
Its summer time now, and when we're not at school, we live about an hour and a half away.
We saw each other about 3 times in 3 weeks, and we skyped a few times, but didn't really talk on the phone. But we did do a lot of texting everyday.
All of a sudden he stops answering my texts, and when I finally call, he says he doesn't see the point of us being together.
Okay now, I'm not an idiot. I knew that the point of us being together this summer was to spend as much time as we could together (because we love each other), so obviously when he said he didn't see the point... I took this to mean that he didn't love me anymore, and didn't want to spend time with me. So I said it'd be better if we spent the summer apart... and he acted like he couldn't care less
But I'm not some pathetic girl who's gonna cry about it all summer...obviously it hurts that he doesn't care... but I mean if he doesn't love me and wanna spend time together... f*** him right? and find someone else
We haven't talked since the split (like a week and a half ago). But all of a sudden he starts texting me last night saying how much he misses me and recalling all these nice memories of us and stuff.. but it was really late... so I didn't text back
I guess what I'm wondering is: should I text him back? Does this show that he still cares about me? or is he just trying to get a booty call?
... what should I do?
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