I been with him 9 years! and I find him disloyal!
i been with my partner about 9 years...
randomly I text off my cousin phone yesterday sayin hi,
he didn't know it wo me, but he text back straight away... initiating a conversation with a stranger (me)
i igonred it, and let my cousin text him (she doesn't know) so she's texting to find out who it is and he's texting her back and getting really cozy
he only told me he loved me a week before and was takig about marriage, wanting to settle down with me
he's the real reserved type and is always telling me he doesn't speak to girls.. I've encouraged him to speak to girls and be 'normal'
now I'm irritated as I don''t know what to make of this
should I test him or just leave it
firstly I said I been with him about 9 years, I was16 going on17 when we first met, and I am 24 now
as for testing him,i wasn't testing him,i just text of my cousin phone saying and hi, and left it
since,i have found he messages her everyday every few hours, has been flirty with her, asking to meet, commenting on her picture,wt she wearn, saying he'd like to get to know her intimately
i have seen these msgs for myself
i was asking should I come clean and tell him it was me and think nothing of it. or allow for my cuzn to text him and him none the wiser
i now have evidence that he would like to get another girl intimately and I'm sorry if anyone out there thinks I'm wrong but I dnt like the the fact he rathr be with sm1 else and not me
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