I'm really upset that my boyfriend didn't get me anything for Valentine's Day. He said he can't afford it but I mean I would have been fine with just a letter and he knows that. I bought him chocolates a few days ago and that's what I'll be giving him today. I know he'll want to have sex later today while I'm at his house so is it okay to say no?
Most Helpful Guy
So you're trying to manipulate him passive-aggressively by refusing sex because you feel entitled to gits, rather than talk to him like an adult? That's unacceptable. If you were my girlfriend and you ever ONCE did something like that your ass is out of my life.4
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Most Helpful Girl
If your not in the mood, your just not in the mood. Sometimes when your having problems with the person you are in a relationship with it can make you lose interest in having sex with them at the time until the two of you both talk. But yeah it would of been nice if he did buy you something since you did the same for him. Nothing to fancy or big, anything thoughtful. Sounds like the guy is the type that doesn't like putting in any effort and you are more so the type to do everything to keep the relationship going.2