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Before I met my online boyfriend. I would post questions or my rants about how my mom would yell at me and my roommate brother not wanting to be around me.

I have no friends and living in the middle of nowhere in a small town. There’s not much options of activities and therapy. So my routine would be sleeping and eating to get through the day. Sometimes chores with my brother getting annoyed with me asking for help. Then my mom yelling and dumping her problems on me about her marriage, life and frustrations.

This was my life before I met my boyfriend.

Now recently, my boyfriend has been busy with his life. To the point he has put his phone 📱 on silent. That I cannot reach him anymore. This was a wake up call that I really need professional help in my life.

As my boyfriend called me back, I explained that we should end our relationship. Because I feel him becoming more and more distant. I also told him it’s probably my fault and I’m suffocating him. Cause of my life/family drama. Which is overwhelming for him.

That he made a comment: “listen, I know you have been dealing with this drama from your family for 30 years. But I cannot give you my advice or opinion. Because it’s your family and you love them. I can only listen.”

I've been dating a guy for four months who's going off to college at the end of the summer and dumping me right before he leaves. Because one of my guy friends is also leaving for college and has a girlfriend still in high school I asked him for advice on how to talk to my boyfriend without creating more arguments. He actually helped a lot and I really appreciated his advice, however this is a guy I had feelings for about 3 years ago. I'm curious to know if it's wrong to talk to an ex/almost lover about relationship issues. I genuinely don't have feelings for this guy anymore and talk to him simply as a friend. Plus my boyfriend knows we facetime sometimes and text (I asked him before hand to make sure he was cool with it), and I never talk down on him. I really only ask for advice so I can fix things because I care about my boyfriend so much and want our relationship to last. Should I stop talking to my old friend about this type of thing? Should I let my boyfriend know I've talked about our relationship with a guy who I almost dated? Is it wrong not to do so?