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slong story short. early into a new relationship after a long break. took me sometimes to get over previous experiences and process all the lessons. My new partner is having some issues that he is working on and I am aware of this - we communicate. One of our common problems at the moment we are both living in house shares - I am more of a mover (every 3-4 months I move elsewhere), and he has been at his place for years (sharing with a landlord an older female who is single and into dogs). He hasn't been happy there for a while, and he doesn't want me to be there when she is around saying nothing good will come out of me meeting this person. He has got a plan on moving out as soon as financially gets better, we are hoping this will happen before the end of this year.

Without meeting her and based on my partner's reaction I know it gets very stressful for him if his housemate doesn't get what she wants (she gets him to look after the house, pets, and her sometimes), so he is all worked up and lashes out on me some times. I find this really unhealthy, but also realise he is the love of my life and know I mean as much to him. I feel there is an unhealthy attachment to his house share from his end, and that he is being played by a more superior and experienced person who wants him around (knowing he is a very carrying person she gets more pets so that she can get his attention). He told me he felt he was stuck there and wanted out. I told him I would like him out of that place as soon as possible - saying this isn't fair on me when he is all stressed and not able to focus on us, and that i don't get to spend time around his place. He tries to smooth things out at his place to lessen the stress, but then he gets into this animal carer role, which still takes away his attention from us (txting, running late, talking about rescue dogs etc). This is affecting us. Trying to be supportive and understanding, but at the end of my tether. please help with advice. thank

I joined an online dating site (im 26, female, aussie) and got emails from an aussie man for about 2 weeks. I replied very little as I got a feeling he was too comfortable already, asking me to come to his place to watch a movie. I got the feeling we wanted different things so let it go.

Then he started emailing me again, but stopped asking me to come to his place - just talked about normal things again. After a week and a half of emails I let him have my number.

A few days later he called me and we had an hour long chat. It was great and interesting. He asked if I'd like to catch up sometime but I said I still wasn't sure .

Then after 3 weeks of phonecalls and really getting along like a house on fire, he sent roses, chocolates, perfume and a teddy to my work (I mentioned where I worked when he asked). I was won over by this & agreed to meet him in public.

We met at a restaurant/bar and by the time I got there he was already tipsy. He bought drinks for us both all night and when I offered to buy he wouldn't let me. we talked for an hour and a half and then had a kiss. It was nice.

The date went on for 3 hours in total, he was very enigmatic and energetic. When I felt myself getting tipsy I excused myself and thanked him for a good night. He put me in a cab, but not before asking me to please come home with him to hang out more.

I went home and felt relieved that I kept my boundaries. But then he kept calling and I gave in, I let him come to my place. Regretfully we slept together. I was drunk and he was drunk - it wasn't special. Anyway the next morning he bounced out of bed and seemed high strung. He left at about 10am and I figured I would never ever hear from him again.

He texted me almost immediately and apologized profusely for not letting me just go home alone. He told me he was so smashed he hardly remembered anything. Anyway I felt pretty low but let it be. He asked me if he had 'f&cked things up' and I said no...

Anyway, days of texting passed, he called once or twice...it just wasn't the same...he seemed really stressed when he would call - talking about how his brother is causing troubles again (his brother seems to be immature - part of a gang or something in sydney) and that his brothers friend had lost his 'prime-mover' - a v expensive truck (he has a logistics company). Then I pressed him to find out if he was into me or not cause I don't want excuses - but he told me he was - he just had serious sh*t going on. then he told me they found the truck - with a tip off from his bro - so his bro may have set it up. Anyway it all feels off between us now, I kept pressing him and now he's irritated at me and Haven't heard from him in 3 days after a little text war. so in 2.5 weeks we had one date, a few calls and texts.

I think I acted too desperate after we slept together. Was too keen on another date. I regret that a lot.