in a relationship and your significant other has more pics up on fb with their x than with you would it bother you and how would you feel if there were a few intimate ones..
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Well for me who cares. 1. It's Facebook I'm pretty sure half the people I'm friends with I've met once or never. The other half are people I never talk to or people I don't talk to anymore. Then there's a small percentage I actually give two shots about. What I'm saying is your making a mountain out of a mole hill as soon as the word Facebook pops up. 2. Your girlfriend has an ex which means she dated him which means she has feelings for him. If she doesn't she's a psychopath and you probably need to run. Feeling attached to an ex is normal and can't be avoided so you just gotta get past your fear. Because that's what it is. Your afraid she cares about her ex more which leads me to 3. You can't control her not do you want to. Let her make her own choices if she wants to go back to him let her you'll be okay and you'll find someone knew. Keep your self-esteem high. And self-esteem is about knowing that if things go bad you'll eventually get over it and things'll end up okay and I'm stressing self esteem for reason 4. Don't give her a reason to go back. Stand up and be you. Their relationship ended for a reason. She's dating you for a reason. So be you the confident sexy you and old dude from the past will probably fade away to the back of her head but you let this paranoia set in and you'll make her start wondering about going back which leads to point 5. Stop assuming. Stop assuming that these pictures mean anything at all. She could've posted them a long time ago and completely forgot about. Just enjoy the moment and appreciate the girl for who she is not who she is to you.0
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