We've been going out for 7 months. The semester just ended and he went back home for the summer. We usually text every day but then I didn't here from him for about 4 days. I got really worried and he wasn't replying to my texts or calls...
I checked my Facebook to see if maybe he sent me a message, but he didn't. But I did a picture on my timeline that pissed me off. It was of him, his bestfriend, his ex and her bestfriend going to see a movie. Posted by his bestfriend and the caption said it was taken during the days I didn't hear from him...
Finally he called me and when I asked him why he didn't reply for a couple days, he said he was busy. Obviously he didn't know that I saw the picture of him, but I took that as him keeping secrets. When I told him I saw the pictures he told me they were just hanging out.
He and his ex were together for a year and some months and I know for a fact she still has feelings for him. I don't like mind games and junk. And he tried to avoid talking about it.
Anyway, I broke up with him for all of this. Honestly, did I overreact?
by the way we were in a place in our relationship where I thought we were growing closer -__-
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Well, I'm assuming that the terms of your relationship were predicated on your boyfriend contacting you every day or every other day unless given a verbal notice otherwise. If he violated this agreement for any reason you deem unfit, you may end the relationship. That free will thing is great, isn't it? I wouldn't call it over-reacting.
Thanks for making us eat that apple, Mr. Snake!0
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