So my boyfriend/fiance have been together for about 2 years now. we live together and have a newborn baby. a few months ago i found he has a meetme account and a kik he hadn't been on it in a while. but the other night i found out he has been on it again and checking other girls out and trying to talk to other people and "hang out". is this considered cheating? what should i do about it? I have never confronted him about it. please HELP ME! And just to clear things i was not going through his phone both times i found out about it and looked, his phone kept going off i thought it was important and looked. Now he says he loves me and tells me everyday we have a great relationship and trust. He supports me in everyway with our daughter and we even went to get our marriage license yesterday! I'm just confused. HELP!
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Do you think its cheating? Does it hurt you? Does it breach your trust?
If your answer is yes to any of the questions, then mine would be definitely yes. Tell him what you know and ask for an explanation. Most likely he will down play it or blame you for being nosy or somehow crazy. don't let that distract you from the real issue. His Dishonesty, and lack of moral compass. Think things through carefully before marrying him. Good luck and stay calm for you child sake. Yours and her welfare is the most important thing here.3
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