Most Helpful Guy
women do this too. I have an ex from (get this) 12 years ago who every so often will pop back into the picture with an email or text from some strange number
it's just the fickle minds of humans. wanting what we can't have, not appreciating what we do have. for me I just block her out entirely. If she texts, I'll just kindly respond with a 'hope you're doing well' and that's it0
Most Helpful Girl
I have found that with many of today's toms, they are sporadic, unpredictable and...Strange, apparently, in your case. He's up and down like a yo yo. It could also have a lot to do with your splitting up. He got muddled brain and mind blowing, to say the least.
If you both are just in the midst of a separation for now, it's good you are taking this break from one another. Everyone needs some space sometimes, and being you are not suggesting Divorce at the moment, tells me there just Might be Still Another 'back with me' in the future.
Take this time for yourself as well. Do some soul searching.
However, the next time he would call and seem 'flipped out,' tell him to do his own soul searching, for you are not going to put up with the on and off again light switch.