He did this, she did that. It's his/her fault I am nervous about dating ! No it's the concious we make to let this stuff get in the way of future relationships, we have a choice and we CHOOSE to act negatively !
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New relationships are just that... NEW! Whatever happened in past relationships should be left in the past. Yes maybe the odd thing may crop up where you find yourself thinking that this didn't happen in my last relationship, but why enter a new relationship with negativity? If you've finished with someone, draw a line under them and tell yourself it wasn't meant to be. Move on. Yes life is about choices, it's also about learning from mistakes and making the decisions which are right for you. If your not happy, do something to change that. Only you can, life is too short for too much negativity. Never regret, just learn from previous unsucessful relationships, you will one day get it right meet the right person, and all will be good and happy!0