What does the "No contact rule" do to your ex?
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What Girls Said 3
depends on if they have another prospect in mind.
in my experience i was with my ex for 6 or so years and i broke up with him, i thought if i cut all contact and got fit and just did me he would come crawling back. not the case, guys get over girls way faster then girls do, especially if they can get girls easily.
my ex and i ended up talking 2 years later. and guess what... he was still the same douche bag.they are an ex for a reason, dont forget that because people dont change.
I have never said this to anyone. But I have not said "contact me whenever you want " either. To me words don't work in situations like this.
I made it clear we are done. There is no need to give any hope if you don't feel anything anymore.
For both parts, it is important not to contact for a while because after breakup everyone is quite vulnerable. We can almost understand everything wrong, let the feelings calm down. And move on, that is why we break up.
Let's him forget about me.
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