So, my boyfriend still talks with his ex girlfriend (of two years ago). It doesn't always happen, but sometimes he does. It's just some friendly chats, so I shouldn't have a problem with it. The thing is that even if I know he loves me and not her I feel very jealous. He still keeps some of their pictures together on Fb and has liked some of her photos. Most the time she's always there liking his posts/pictures etc. She even once contacted him and asked "what were the things that made him like her when they were together" some months ago and he answered (they only talk through Fb and live far apart).
Is it normal that it bothers me so much? I don't wanna be the jealous girl, but sometimes I feel like even he is trying to make me jealous and I hate it when he does it (like mentioning her sometimes... I would never ever do it to him).
I always thought that it was normal to people after they broke up to just erase eachother from their life and not like eachothers pictures on Fb... like wth?
I tried talking to him but he just won't listen and joke about it.
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jealousy is a natural feeling. it's a sign that you have feelings for him and are afraid to lose him. but you don't want to be consumed by jealousy. I think that as long as he seems to keep their relationship on the straight and narrow you should try and be cool.
however it is fair to hope and ask that he not talk about the ex very often, if at all0