i will be pleased to hear from you all
i m quite puzzled right now.
though i must say i want him desperately! but my beliefs says that its wrong n impure to have sex before marriage.
But my guy decided to wait for me. He swear upon God he will if i tell him a reason why i dnt want sex now :)
still can't put words to say
Most Helpful Guy
As an atheist I feel sorry for both of you because your belief has cost you an opportunity to be happy. Since I don't believe in gods, I don't understand the value of behaving a certain way to gain their favor and it seems like a loss to me.
I'm not you though. My values are different from yours, and you may derive a great deal of happiness from your belief. Perhaps more than what you've refused with your BF. If that's the case, you did right. If it's not, you did wrong.
That's according to my value structure though, and it's based on the idea that he who dies having experienced the most moments of true happiness is the winner. Your mileage will vary because you probably find other things more important than simple happiness.
Most Helpful Girl
I feel like you left out a lot of information that could have potentially made your situation even more clear.
Did he want to have sex with you? Did he try to? Did he force the idea on you? Did he keep talking about it? Did you tell him no? Did you tell him no every single time? How many times did he bring it up? Did it make you uncomfortable?