Most Helpful Girl
You can't make him fall in love with you. He's either interested or he's not. If he's currently going through a divorce, he is likely not ready yet to jump right into a relationship. Most people would need some time to heal and get over it. I know I would. My advice would be to stop having sex with him but continue being friends if you really want this to happen. He's putting up boundaries, so he's obviously not ready for this. The sex only complicates things. Be there for him but give him the space he's asking for. If it's meant to be, he'll come around. My gut feeling is that you're a safe place to satisfy his physical needs right now. Take that out of the equation. Be his friend and let him know you are open to more than that. Then put the ball in his court. Set a time frame in your own mind that you're willing to wait for him to make up his mind. If that time passes, move on. Best of luck to you.