Time to let GaG decide : Do I report her and get her deported.?

Some of you know the story of the Zambian girl that I married who took my money and disappeared as soon as she got the marriage visa. Well the divorce arrived today and despite it all I am a bit emotional. So you people decide. Do I get her deported yes or no?
  • Yes get her ass out of the UK
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  • No live and let live, nothing to gain
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  • That's actually marriage fraud, on her part. Obviously you know she only married you to get a visa and get access to your bank account. Did you know her for very long before this happened? Was she your girlfriend? I'm guessing you had no idea of her intentions - she is a scam artist basically, and they always make you think their intentions are good. Report her and provide as much evidence as you can.

    There is A LOT of red tape to cut through when you are marrying somebody from another country. Trust me, I know.

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    • No idea dated over 2 years spent a lot of time in Zambia getting to know her. To talk to you would think she didn't even understand the visa process. Yes it was a fight to get her here.. a long one. Once married things changed in days.

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    • It will. The government's already made sure he's not just here to marry me and get citizenship (like what mail order brides do, haha). I've known him for several years too which helps. He already has a job and pays taxes here and all that, so nothing fishy.

      Thanks for mh.

    • Good.. would hate to see anyone else go through this

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What Girls Said 7

  • Did you know that she wanted to get married to obtain her visa, before you married her?

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  • What good would that give you, other than revenge? How is her situation in her home country?

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  • Isn't that too late to deport her? Does she have permanent residence visa in UK?

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  • She basically just used you. Get her out.

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  • Yes do it
    Revenge in this case is okay

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  • Yes you do. I don't know the full story but she used you. Get revenge

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    • Married jan 21st. Visa Feb 22nd. Tried to poison me between those dates. Gone by June. That is without the money she left with and debts she ran up in my name.

  • Why don't you sleep on it and cool off first. Did she cause any real harm to you? What is your share of responsibility here?

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    • Ermm.. my role was financing her business in Zambia and sponsoring her visa. Maybe naivety xx

    • I am sure you feel used and you should. She most definitely took advantage of you. Did she ask you to finance her business? Or take any other Burden on her behalf?
      I am not sure what reporting her would accomplish. Other than perhaps momentary gratification.
      See if you can make a deal with her. You don't report her if she ( fill in the blank).

    • Update, she tried to poison you? You painted a different picture in another comment. By all means report and deport her. Do anything else within you legal power.

What Guys Said 5

  • Kick her ass. This was a lesson to you. Never trust foreigners that much.

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  • I wouldn't think twice about it. She played you like an atm, she's a worthless whore.

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  • Yes get her ass out of the UK

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  • Zombies suck

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  • I say teach her how the game is really played ;)

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