what the hell I am so confused can anyone help
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Sounds like he may be having a hard time committing, May be distancing himself or using you. Could be none of them. Either way, it seems a little odd to me. Have you asked him to explain what he means? Obviously at least one of you is confused and if he tries to say you know and you don't I'd personally call him out on it. That's just me. Im pretty blunt... wishing you the best in figuring this out and with your little girl. Mine acted out at 7 when I finally dated (long term). She's met two men in 5 years I've dated for at least a yr. It can improve with love, understanding and patience. My dgtr is turning 12 in a couple months and now teases me that she'll probably wind up married before I do. I don't date much. And I won't have an unhealthy relationship around my dgtr. If he's not telling you what's going on, that stress has got to be tough on your little girl too. Especially if he's moving/moved out. I do hope this is resolved in the best way for all of you however it turns out... thinking good thoughts!