Well my ex wife has been giving me all kinds of crap lately, she has been saying I owe her money for this past tax season because I claim our child, but I raise the child, put food on the table for the child, bathe and put clothes on my child. She sees him maybe 30 times a year. has him for 24hrs on an occasional Saturday. well I called about info on taxes and child custody. I found out that technically she never fished her part of the custody papers and after all this time I'M NOT DIVORCED. How do I tell my girlfriend? do I tell her? she has been hinting around about marriage lately. I'm glad I found out about this cause first thing Tuesday I'm taking my ass down to finish the divorce even if I have to start all over. I am SICK of my EX!! but my question is how will my girlfriend take this? any girls ever been through this? I honestly just found out today :( PLEASE help if you know any steps I can take I am in California willing to take ALL info/comment/opinions into consideration.
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She would be more angry if you hid it from her. Just sit her down and tell her the truth. You didn't do anything wrong, so you have nothing to hide. She might be upset, but if she loves you, she'll get over it. Like I said, you aren't in the wrong, your ex is.0