while dating a guy i lost a VERY important document from my wallet along with 2 credit cards..later i foud out this guy cheated on me amongst other things all in all i was left very hurt...about a week after that stuff went missing i did start to suspect he may have taken them but with no real evidence i couldnt accuse him...he start joking about me stealing his ssn (something i never even thought of) one time when i punched my pin into an atm he made a joke about seeing it i just took these as jokes...but after seeing the person he is i wouldn't put it past him & i really think he has the document that i NEED in order to work that costs 400 dollars to replace & he can't do anything with it..unless he could have sold it? idk...after a horrible break up that even got physical that was 6 weeks ago..i just got a job offer that i cannot accept without the card i haven't broken nc not even once & i have no urge to because i hate his guts...i know emotionally this isn't a ploy to reconnect because i dont want him but is it worth it for me to even ask & plead to his humanity about the card if he has it or "found" it sense then or is it just gonna be pointless cause he'll see that as contact & deny having the card anyway?i also have my mothers fb password & thought maybe i could send a message through hers (we are both 20) so that its more authoritative & doesn't seem like i want to talk...i dont have 400 bucks right now & i need the job...im just wondering if it seems at all worth going through this & if you guys would try it what route you'd take...or just call it a loss?
- break NC it's an importnat document who cares what he thinks..he may feel bad & give it back if he really took itVote A
- use your mothers account...that way he won't feel like he can contact you & may be more inclined to admit he took itVote B
- call it a loss...if he took it he isn't going to give it back nowVote C