So I installed and app on his phone to track messsages. Sure enough he texted her again. He looked in my face and lied to me. Also swearing on our 8 month old after we had a great weekend and I forgave him. He just went back and texted her again. He was apologetic but can't deal with his guilt so he got drunk. Now its just like i dont know if i can keep doing this with my child involved. NOW that I forgave him twice for lying I just don't know what to do? I think I made a mistake taking him back?
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well having a kid changes everything in your situation.. i would say once a liar always a liar.. and you should break up with him.. but with a baby involved i changes that solution.. i think you should talk to him about what this 18 year old is giving him that he likes so much to want to text her a lot? what are they texting about? because if they are talking about sex or meeting up then you have a problem... but maybe they are friends or something then its not a big deal.. if you feel that your child is in harm then leave and file for child support and go your separate ways.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE