Since my fiancee dump me, should I seek an escort?

Basically we were suppost to get married towards the ending of college, which would have been in exactly 1 whole year from now.

I waited for a girl that had strong religious values. But like everything in life, there was a price to this, which was starving myself for years and continue masturbating (I've been doing this since I was 15 so it's no news).

She dumped me 2 weeks ago because according to her the relationship had gotten stale, she wants to meet new people and I was working more than before. Should I get over it (my sexual frustration that is; forever masturbating) by paying an escort or not? Yet, I don't know why I'm still having seconds thoughts about it and it's like part of me is telling me not to do it but at the same time I'm so devastated over this sudden break up.
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I'm 21 years old.

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  • You said yourself you are devastated about the break up, I don't think you actually need an escort you should wait Im sure you will regret it later if you do it

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    • I guess I could wait for a couple months and start dating again. Just hope the next girl doesn't find it weird if we were getting to know each other more and I had to explain the situation, esp if she were experienced (since I'm not going to be dating girls waiting till marriage anymore).

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What Girls Said 4

  • Are you serious? You get dumped and instead of going out into the dating world again you want to hire an escort? You can't be that desperate.

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    • Maybe I'm not thinking clearly now. This break up has been recently. She was making me wait till marriage, then dumps me and I'm still a virgin at 21.
      I'm sad about the whole thing. I really wanted her in my life, get married, have kids and now it's all over. Wish there was for her to come back in my life.

    • Being a virgin is not a bad thing. So what if you're a guy? I hate how guys think that it's ok for them to have sex outside of marriage a bunch of times and not be labeled a man hoe but if a girl does it she is labeled a slut or not someone a guy wants to take home to meet his parents. Virginity should be just as important to guys as it is to girls. And you're 21! You are a kid. How about you just worry about college and making new friends. You're too young to be tied down by a fiancee.

  • Your chances of getting aids with an escort are extremely high.

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    • This concerns me so much. I'm not thinking clearly. But you're right. They do bring STD's. I just want to have that life that she took away from me when she dumped me. I would like to be a in sexual relationship. Will not be waiting till marriage anymore.
      And well as a guy is harder to having sexual self-control than you girls. Not impossible (nothing is) though just harder.

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    • In 2% of instances - the condemn will break.

    • Nevermind... forget the escort idea. I don't want an escort when I can still attract girls and get myself a gf. I was just too upset to think.

  • better look for another gf instead for looking for an STD

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  • Yeah go have an orgy

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What Guys Said 4

  • If you just want to have sex then sure, go for it.

    If you want to hire an escort to get over post-breakup loneliness then I'd suggest saving your money as it won't work.

    I've payed for sex with around 40 women so I know this from experience.

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    • Yes, I'm still affected by my break-up and still not knowing what's it like having sex in a relationship, doing it with the woman you love. I'm still very hesitant about the escort it. Now it's like an inner voice is telling me no that I'll regret it and it'll end up very fast that I won't like it still.
      But if I get into a relationship, do I have to explain the situation to the other girl of how I ended up still not having sex in a relationship at the age of 21/22?

    • Honestly in my experience doing it with someone you love isn't so different from doing it with someone you just met, your dick goes in and out of her vagina, feels good man.

      If you are still upset over your ex there is no reason to make a decision now, escorts will still be there in a month/year/whatever.

  • Really? Go to some college parties and find a drunk girl, they are cheaper that way...lol

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  • you can masturbate

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    • I've been masturbating since I was 15, dealing with raging hormones. That's 6 years of masturbating.

    • ouch..don't your hands ache dude?

    • yes, I've been imagining what's it like doing it with for real..not just masturbation but the real thing. I'm guessing it must be a great feeling (what my ex fiancee denied of).
      Sucks

  • Go for an escort, man. It's a great stress-relief.

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