Any chance of getting back with an ex?

Me and my ex, our 2yr r/s was one full of arguments mainly cause of my temper, with many breaking ups and then back again. This time it was final cause he said he's really sick and tired of how I'd always promise to change but nv did so. He was a great guy who tried his best but I only begun to cherish after I finally lost him.

I know I need to change my temper, and I'm really working hard on it for my own good. But is it already all too late to get him back?

Few weeks after the breakup, I contacted him. He said he's unsure if we should get back, he needs to think. But said what if he will not love anymore? He sees no reason to try anymore and that he feels he deserves someone better.. Someone who can make him happy.

I really regret how I've disappoint him and made him leave me. He said he's unsure at first and I hoped there was a tiny chance but perhaps I blew it when I pressured him further.

I'm starting NC and I won't stop improving myself. Is there anything I can do to make him come back in future? Or is there no more chance for me forever?


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  • I was in the exact same predicament not too long ago with the same problems. My girlfriend has anger issues, but she also had alcohol problems on top of that. If he's anything like me, I don't think there's anything you can do to change the way he sees you now. He might forgive you as I did her, but it doesn't mean I'm gonna to subject myself again to that sort of abuse. You can try to get him back, but words at this point mean nothing, action means everything. If he does take you back, he's gonna drop you at the first sight that you really didn't change anything.

    • Thanks for your reply. Can I ask u a few more questions since u have been through similar?

      He was talking to me a little, telling me how he doesn't see any point already and he might not be able to love me back. But I pressured him to get back and pushed him away now. He's not replying my text or maybe he deleted without reading I have no idea. I'm starting NC to heal n improve myself. How long do u think I should wait before contacting him again as a friend and let me slowly see my change? Or he is already gone forever?

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