i did ignore him and did no contact totally.he blocked me in fb but he follows me on instagram.even if he likes my photos or comments sometimes i never reply. i changed my number too so he won't be able to message me anymore or call me.
i went out last wk and i had so much fun.but then when i was about to go home one of his buddies approached me when i was gona go home he was asking how i was ofcourse i acted normally but then he mentioned my ex. but i said im not interested in talking about my ex. then he asked me where i am going and whos with me i said some friends will pick me up but the truth is i just said that i was gona go home alone.
then someone called me again as i was walking i didn't see well so i went near the car and i saw my ex bf there he was the one calling me asking how i was he looked happy.i was in complete shock. he then asked me if its ok i go inside his car to talk then he drove.he said to his friends that we will go ahead..but i told him i can go home alone but he insisted he takes me back home. then he said he asked his friend to follow me but his friend made a mistake because his friend talked to me lol he just wanted to see who i was going home with. so he was the one in the end who had to follow me that night to see where im going and who was with me..
i asked why but he said he cares for his friend. then he laughed. i wasn't really talking that much since i was shocked.
he was talking about things with me like whats happening with him.. so i was being casual.we did ate also before he brought me back home.so we were together for like 2hrs
to cut the long story short. in the end he said he wanted to see me again and talk.but WHY? when i asked why he said maybe i already know why.he got my new# but didn't message me yet for 3days already
Most Helpful Guy
Don't over-think the situation. It is clear that he still likes you even after all this time, he clearly gets jealous of you, after all he wants to know whether you're "going home" with anyone which concerns him, he also drove you home, it's quite a gentleman-ly thing to do nowadays.
You need to be upfront with him, ask what he's doing and ask him about why he was so concerned about whether you were going home with another man that night and why he was following you, he could give you a romantic answer that could lead to searching for a re-newed relationship with you. Otherwise maybe he's just jealous because even though he is looking for new girls, he still wants to keep all of his ex's in line. You need to find clarification. Go get it!
Most Helpful Girl
Well if he says he wants to see you again and wants to talk then I'm sure he means it and wants you back. If he also got your new number then it's a dead giveaway that this guy still has a thing for you. No one goes through all that effort over a past ex they don't feel something for. I think he hasn't messaged you cause he is probably unsure whether he did the right thing or he could be over thinking things again. Maybe he's also afraid of texting to soon and looking desperate especially after he's the one who came back to you like that. Give it some time and in the meantime decide what you want and how you feel about him for real.
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