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Yes, unconditional surrender
is the quickest way to stay together w/o therapy (a hit or miss propo$ition)
If you are truly loved, your surrender will become moot in no time.
If your surrender is worn like a trophy & used for boasting... well, time to think again about moving out and cutting comms
Eventually, you both will have to agree to view STRESS as an outsider, against which you both team up to defeat.