So, lets just face it. We've all gots to have SOME of those sexy times now and then. Obviously I didn't just decide this all on its own. My problem is that i get waaay too attached to people waaay too quickly and so you can all probably imagine me after a break up..yeah, its like a freakin' tsunami hit my town or something. Is the pain of being heartbroken worth the time you had spent with that person? I think deep inside i'd go with yes as it is just a small slice of our lives, helping us grow as we experience different things, but the pain is soo horrible that sometimes i just think one night stands might be a better option. What do you guys think?
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This is something fundamental about being a human being. Emotional attachments are a risk, but they are also what makes the world turn. Its important to see relationships not just in terms of boyfriends and girlfriends, but also friends. Make sure you look after your friends as well, because when you do have your heart broken, its your friends who support you. There is also a danger in trying to pursue just physical relationships, because they are essentially not much fun. Its the meeting of two minds that is exciting. Yes as we grow up we'll try things, some won't work. Make sure you love and respect yourself first and foremost, then respect and love those who support you - friends and family. Then you'll be able to approach boyfriends in a more mature way.2