I am leaving for seasonal work again this summer and she sent me this tonight: "Just because we arn't together dosn't mean you can't talk to me lol unless you don't want to."
Just super confused of where she is at.
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I'm going to be extremely blunt here bc I've done my fair share of dating and been in these situations. She's dangling you along. She thinks since you love her so much she can do her own thing and you will still be there when she wants to pick you up again. If she didn't care at all she would never respond or chat with you or try to remain friends. She's playing you!
One of two things needs to happen for your own sanity:
No longer contact her at all in any way shape or form and do not respond to anything she sends you for at least a month or two. If she cares at all for you she will feel concerned she's losing you and actually get serious about decisions regarding your relationship. If she's really over you she won't care and you need to move on.1