I don't know how or why I still care about him. I wish I could switch it off. I'm not by any means in love with him, but I do still care about his well being. That's way more than he feels toward me.
Someone robbed him and shot him, so I reached out just to check on him, to tell him he was in my prayers and to see if he needed anything. He didn't even have the decency to respond. I don't know why I'm shocked! This is the same guy that treated me bad & left me while i was going through chemo, for his ex.
The only reason we still talk is because he still has a gang of my clothing & also he wanted to know when my Dr bills came. He tells me he is broke and can't help with bills from a miscarriage that he played a big part in, but took his gf on an unplanned vacation days later. I don't understand why he's hateful towards me & treats her so well?
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I know you don't want to hear this, but you need to let go. A guy that leaves when the going gets tough is not worth anything. In any relationship you're there to support each other.
I know you haven't gotten over him but give it more time. You can easily find someone that's better than him.
Just reading your thing tells me he's disrespectful, untrustworthy, and lies. These are not great characteristics. Try putting yourself out there to other men besides him.
Plain and simple; he's not worth it.2