The brief story is that, I broke trust with my girlfriend of 6 months. No, I didn't cheat but I used her credit card to purchase a flight back after our original flight was cancelled. At the time, I had already bokked a round trip flight with my cc but flight back was cancelled. In my head I knew she doesn't do well with last minute changes so I did this as I could not transfer the amount needed to my checking in time.
The worst thing is that after it was done i couldn't believe I had done it and was in denial because it is out of my character and had never done such a thing. I was always the one looking out for her. I realize that i had betrayed her and lost trust so I couldnt admit. I finally confessed and she broke up with me, i have since paid her back.
I am deeply hurt that i did this to someone i love so much and to see her hurt is hurting me more.
We hung out a couple times after and shared laughs and were affectionate (not sexually) but because she is so upset over what happened she said she doesn't want to talk about our relationship and needs space.She said its hard because she still loves me and wanted to marry me but is having a hard time getting over this. She has seemed happy but admitted she is trying to distract how sad she is. i agreed to give her time to heal but Im here of rher. i also wrote a letter telling her how this time apart has given me time to think and what things couldve improved overall. She continues to say that she is praying and wants this to go away. Also said she would be jealous if i dated anyone. I in my heart feel that its not over but space is needed, We both saw a future together and I just dont think that goes away because of this. i get i made a huge mistake and understand her feelings.
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If you were discussing future plans like marriage, she seriously needs to get that stick out of her arse.
It's not like you spent that money on hookers and blow. It was a legit spent and seeing how she has already trusted you with her card details and pin, she should expect you to take some money every now and then.
The lying - bad move. Shouldn't have lied about it, just said that you used her card and be done with it. I don't even get why you had to lie about it, since what you spent it on was VERY REASONABLE.
She seriously overreacted and is not ready for any kind of future with you. She also seems to value other people's opinions over your feelings.
Again, I'm not saying what you did was ok, but it definitely isn't that bad either. My boyfriend borrows my cards and I his ALL THE TIME. Never had any issues with it.
You might want to reconsider planning your future with someone so overly dramatic.0