- Not talk to her and have her crawling back to me
- Talk to her and try to fix it
Most Helpful Girl
Forget about her and move on. Find someone else who actually likes being in a relationship with a nice guy. Simple as that.
Or you can just sit and wait for her. He will treat her like crap again and she will need a shoulder to cry on. And after she gets herself together she will go back to him. Its going to be like a back and forth game. If you're up for that then go ahead.
But if I were you I would just move on. She isn't worth it. She's just playing games because she knows people will take her back no matter what. Because guys are guys.
Most Helpful Guy
I understand that you love her, I was in a very similar situation a decade ago.
But why on earth would you want her back? Even if she were to come back for you, what would stop her from doing it again? she now knows she can get away with it, as you'd be available. This isn't a good thing, despite what you might believe.
You need to start accepting the fact that your relationship is over. There's no fix. There's no amount of effort you can put to work things out. And it sucks, I know. But lingering on it is only going to make things worse.
You should try, for a while, to focus on other things while you cool things off. I'd recommend you pick a hobby that adds value to your life.
Do not make the mistake of hating them. They are what they are, and they did what they willed.
If anything, learn from it. But that's not something you should worry about now.