Hi, this is my first post i really hope you guys can help me out of this mess, well my girlfriend and i been dating for more than 2 years about 3 weeks ago we had a fight and things got really ugly and see said I want to finish this i just said Ok, have a Nice life... i didn't want to say that. took me 5 days to cool off and call her, we talked About a lot of things, she said her mind was made up and that she didn't want to stay with me, I asked her to go out and talk, wrote her a Letter, bought flowers to apologize but she doesn't want to give me another chance, I love her i just want her to be back. Im having some rough days, Im not sleeping well, thinking about her the whole day I don't know if im acting too needy, should i just let her go? Should i insist? First time i've feel like this in my whole life, im 28 btw...so basically whats the next step?
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I don't want to sugar coat because id want you to give me honest advice too...I think she cares for you as a person but is not in love with you she emailed you that she knows she's making a mistake she says that because you must be kind to her& have a great heart BUT..when a woman tells you she isn't happy it most likely means she wants more, more adventure , attention, fun, more life coming from this relationship you guys must not do much spontaneous things & seems like she wants to seek if there is anything better out there.I respect her for admitting she's not happy & for not continuing this relationship because her unhappiness WILL make her cheat & just constantly argue.You tried & did your part , by you saying have a nice life was like a burden lifted off her shoulder she's over you.your 28 don't waste precious time&life.good luck!0