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Either tell him to stand up for you two, or to leave you alone. Dragging this out and not taking steps to keep the relationship is not fair to you or him. If you are going to school to get a career then he shouldn't be worried about it. If he wants someone who has a career then he wants someone who isn't you. Either you two work to stay together, or just cut ties and walk away. You are only causing yourself heart ache and unnecessary stress.
Im basing this on what you said here, which is really hard to follow since you have really strange abbreviations.