So I was with my abusive ex for years and finally had enough and left her 6 weeks ago.
I wanted to remove her from FB but my mother said because she's a bit of a psycho to wait 6 weeks for when she goes on holiday for 10 days to visit family.
So yea today is the day she leaves to visit family so I removed her from FB and set my status to "single" and went to bed.
I just woke up and thought I would double check that I done everything correct and noticed that she changed her status from "married" to "in a relationship".
Now I was hoping since we broke that she would meet someone else because it was less chance she would attempt to cause me problems or come back to me.
I can't stand this girl she is evil beyond belief and I've never regretted leaving her or felt upset that i left her ever.
So why now do i feel upset even though I was hoping she would get a new bf straight away ( she can't stay by herself she has to lean on someone) do I feel upset now I've seen her new "in a relationship" status? This girl was making my life hell for years I don't know why i even care!
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Emotional attachment bro. While you want the best for her, at same time you also want to feel better than her.
Just find another girl.
And don't worry about her finding someone, it takes a girl a miniskirt, makeup and one trip to a night club to find someone else.1