My boyfriend left his dating profile active for 9 months while we've been exclusive so he could read messages he got. He says he likes feeling attractive to other people, "Likes having his ego stroked". I only found out about it because a friend saw it and called me to ask if we'd broken up.
Then he continued to receive pictures from a girl he had a one night stand with while on vacation before we met. They still talk through email sometimes. When I asked him why he said he was showing the pictures off to his friends. He's really proud of having a "one night stand on a beach with a hot chick". What hurts the most about that is that he has no pictures of me let alone showing my pictures off to his friends.
Why do people do this to the person they are in a relationship with? If you aren't happy leave, the betrayal and pain you cause is so much worse.
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Is your dating profile closed?
That guy sounds like me, is he by any chance a leo?
Don't worry, if he is, than he just needs to be tamed and he will be yours forever.
Why people do this, you mean man, simple ego and justice.
First it is flattering to get attention, you girls are used to that since your breasts started to grow us guys not so much. Girls give guys only attention later, when they seek a father for their children and a walking atm.
Second, it takes for a woman, a mini skirt and 10 minutes at a bar to find a sex partner, guys need at least a week for that. So some men, like to keep up to 5 current phone numbers in reserve just in case the girl, cheats on them.
I would not read to much into it, and just see it as an attack on your relationship. You were happy before your friend called. Is this "friend" by any chance jealous and wants to destroy your luck. If you now give into the drama, the goal is reached.
Talk to your guy, tell him that it really bothers you. Just be sure that if he is not allowed to talk to other girls, you never ever talk to another man again, this goes both ways.0