My boyfriend left his dating profile active for 9 months while we've been exclusive so he could read messages he got. He says he likes feeling attractive to other people, "Likes having his ego stroked". I only found out about it because a friend saw it and called me to ask if we'd broken up.
Then he continued to receive pictures from a girl he had a one night stand with while on vacation before we met. They still talk through email sometimes. When I asked him why he said he was showing the pictures off to his friends. He's really proud of having a "one night stand on a beach with a hot chick". What hurts the most about that is that he has no pictures of me let alone showing my pictures off to his friends.
Why do people do this to the person they are in a relationship with? If you aren't happy leave, the betrayal and pain you cause is so much worse.
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What a complete jerk and narcissist. Get rid of him, he is in love with himself more than he is with you. Go find someone who will give you all their undivided attention, who actually cares about your feelings and will strive to make you feel important.
Any guy who will brag about doing someone else while in a relationship with another girl is immature.
I hate to be blunt but your best course of action is just move on and forget him and try to never get involved with another guy similar to him.0