Right my now ex girlfriend and I were dating for about 5 months and I know it's short but I know I like her a lot and we were seeing each other for about two years before making us official, we are at college and during college I went to Italy with my class mates and one of them was her sister, during our trip, her sister found out about her and I and was furious for not being told, and then so told her parents, her parents were also furious that they weren't told that she was seeing me therefore, gave her an ultimatum of either continue dating me, and leave her house, or stay with her parents, but dump me. And obviously we all know that she would pick her parents as she is obviously still living with them, anyways now it's been a couple months after and I still really like her and I just want to know if anyone could offer any advice, as I still like her, I talk to her to the bare minimum, and she still likes me but her parents have told her she cannot date me. Advice would be nice, so please help?
Most Helpful Girl
I have been through this all my life and I am 28 years old. Basically, they won't do or give her what she wants until she makes them happy and leave you alone. She has to date someone that her parents cares for and if not they will punish her until she does. All you can do is make her understand that you love her and really care for her, explain how her parents are making you feel and she if she trys to talk with them. If she won't talk with her parents about it, then they have too much control over her life and all she is gonna keep doing is trying to make them happy, while you are hurt and she won't realize how they are mistreating her. I know I have been there for years. I am 28 and my boyfriend is 25, they did everything to break us up, even wouldn't do a thing for me until I dropped him, I wouldn't and they did everything to mistreat me.0
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Most Helpful Guy
YOU can't DO ANYTHING ABOUT IT... FORGET HER AND MOVE.. PARENTS LIKE HER ARE CONTROL FREAKS AND LOSERS... I DON'T KNOW WHAT IS THERE PROBLEM... THEY JUST can't ACCEPT THE FACT THAT THERE CHILDREN ARE NOW GROWN UPS..
THATS WHY EVERYONE SHOULD GET OUT OF THERE NEST AND LIVE ON THEIR OWN IF POSSIBLE...
THANK GOD MY PARENTS ARE NOT IMMATURE LIKE THESE...0