He is telling my friends I am a bitch and why they friends with me
And today I have a new boyfriend... my new boyfriend got alil scared because my ex look REALLY UPSET because me and new bf was together
He even told people I suck dick when I was out on vocation
Then he is asking my female friend if I am still mad about us breaking up the other day...
He is saying I am crazy too people HE BREAK UP WITH ME
I DONT UNDERSTAND WHY HE HATES ME I didn't DO ANYTHING TO HIM!!
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I had an interesting scenario before as well. I dated someone we had mutual friends with. We both looked like douches. She didn't honor her relationship with her bf, and then didn't honor her relationship with me. I complained and got upset. Later on, while still friends and when I thought she was growing up and maturing, found out she wasn't maturing at all. We had a falling out with harsh words exchanged. I told the mutual friends what happened, even telling them the bad things I said. My understanding is that they don't keep in touch with her, but they do with me.
Now the point. Your friend isn't being nice and clearly your friends will end up seeing this. His ego is bruised somehow. If there are any mutual friends involved, I would disclose something and tell them you don't feel comfortable being in the same environment.
From the perspective of the new boyfriend, be careful with the new guy. He is aware that the ex is still fresh on your mind and so is the drama that is coming from it. Considering that you indicated you started dating him a couple days after the breakup, you may not be able to give your all to the new bf yet either. Take it slow and don't try and rush things either.0