About three weeks after the incident she responded to my letter and explained that she wasn't ready to talk and needed sometime to herself. She also asked if the feelings that I shared in the letter were still there? I clearly replied yes they are still there.
Since then, she has taken baby steps towards communicating with me. Last week, she initiated conversation with me on three separate days. The first, was over an issue involving Facebook where she was heartbroken over the fact that I had recently accepted two friends who were female. I consider this type of issue out of my control. Especially, since I was under the impression that she had blocked me on the site.
The other two times she initiated conversation with me was when she was lonely & when something positive reminded her of me in a positive light. She's openly said that she's still healing and doesn't want to discuss the past or argue. But, doesn't mind if I text her if I'm feeling the urge to talk to her.
I initiated conversation with her on Wednesday of this week and overall it was an alright conversation. I guess in my mind I find casual conversation to be a bit offsetting. Especially when the overwhelming problem has not been discussed yet. Also, I don't know if by initiating conversation with her a lot is a sign of me trying too hard or giving her too much attention.
Should I hold off on speaking to her for awhile or should i try to spark more casual conversation with her?