My ex and I have been broken up for at least a week n a half due to him saying I hurt him by talking to other guys. However, lately I've been inviting him to go out with me and he says ok... at the end of the night he has kissed me before and says he still cares about me. However when I ask if we can be together he doesn't want to talk about it.. he says we can only be friends right now.. I really want us to make things work but when he seems like he is so sure about us justbeing friends I feel like what's the point in trying... at the same time I feel if he didn't really care why wld he still be there.. although I've been the one inviting him to go places.. I feel like these might be baby steps for a better future.. but idk.. what do you'll think?
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I think with all my heart and soul, being as wise as I am, he is being Cautious, putting up a security screen And-------Not wanting to wear his heart so quickly again on his sleeve. He's playing it cool with you this time, just taking things Slow. And I don't blame him. He's probably Still holding a grudge, Yet he Still wants you in his life because down deep he Still cares about you. Don't expect him to admit more right now. He's being careful, not careless. And Subconsciously, he may even be teaching you a small lesson to let you know he means business.
Go with his flow of friends. Don't feel insulted. Any relationship, especially a potential fresh start to reuniting, should begin its beguine with Friendship to nurture and nurse. Makes lessons learned for a healthier new beginning.
Don't give up. And don't pressure him right now. Let it alone. I truly believe you're Both Off to a great start. And even if you Do have to do a bit chasing, believe me, he likes this.
Yes, I agree with You, you're catching on with your own logical thinking: "Baby steps for a better future..."
Good luck. xx0
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