I've had a girlfriend for the last year and we've known each other for 5. We did the off and on thing for a while and right now we've been long distance for about a year. I met someone else and I feel absolutely aweful. It's been a few months and I just can't seem to do it. The thought of breaking up with her gives me a nervous breakdown, and I'm scared to death. I don't know why I feel this way, and want to overcome it. Girls, what do I do? How should I think in order to get this done?
Most Helpful Girl
Sweetie, you are completely normal. Everyone worries about the same thing. This relationship, while it benefited you for a while is no longer good for you. You just have to be honest with your partner and get it over with. She won't find anyone, anytime soon, so don't worry about that. But the fact that you found someone who makes you happy and what have you is amazing. You deserve to be happy, and if your current relationship makes you have second doubts, and this second person makes you feel wonderful and whole, then you have to go for it, otherwise you will regret it forever and eventually resent your spouse/partner. How much do you love the new person?0
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