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She's being honest with you about her Personal problems, about All of her 'Issues,' and may very well, for what I can see-------Not want to drag you down with her, like some anchor. And she is also being sincere with you, telling you she wants you as her 'Friend,' and with this-----Wants You in her life.
At this point in time, being she is distancing herself from everyone, including you, the only thing you can do is be supportive as her Good friend, and be this shoulder she can lean on. If you pressure her in any, shape or form, she will feel cornered and back off completely. I know that you don't want that. She has to be handled with kid gloves. It's what you need to do if you say you love her this much.
Might I suggest you speak to her about seeing a therapist. It sounds as though she Does indeed have mental issues, which will Only get worse. There's no harm in sending her a message of love and friendship every day. But I do suggest you start as well to concentrate on your own life... Don't wait around for things to go back to the old times. It may never happen. She is Telling you to do this. It's what she feels is best for you.
Good luck. xx1
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