Two months ago I was dumped by my bf in UK (I am in US) in the middle of me planning to move out there to be with him. During the time when I was still planning on moving there I applied to a bunch of jobs. One of those jobs just got back to me that they want to hire me. Its an amazing opportunity working for a company that will look great on my resume, better money and will pay for my relocation. However, I am still pretty angry about the break-up and hurt. I did fall in love with the area as well and I wasn't JUST moving there to be with him, I really did love England. My Other dilemma is that I took a job here, which as much as I love... not as amazing as this new one.
Here's my questions:
- Would it be pathetic to move there to take a job I only applied for to be with him?
- If I didn't take it, does he win?
- Take The JobVote A
- Dont Take the JobVote B
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Short answer: Do it. If it still has benefits for you to relocate, it doesn't make sense to abandon all those plans and the job opportunity. After all, there's plenty of guys out there, just because one of them let you down it doesn't mean you can't use your past relationship to your advantage.0