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Ok, sorry to say, but the relationship is over. You need to be with someone you can talk to. You can't talk to this guy, he won't listen or let you in. Any decent guy would have sat you down to talk about why he isn't happy. Him simply moving out is a really bad move. It shows he has no interest in making it work or trying to fix the problem. He is running from the issue, or trying to avoid it. Him saying moving out is the first step to fixing things is bullshit! I say he lost interest in you. Getting your own place and moving out without letting your partner know is a classic break up move. He played it perfectly. No fights, no problems, no confrontations or conflicts. Easy get-a-way! Don't take it personally. I don't think you have the greatest connection with him, and he probably doesn't have the emotional ability to connect fully with you anyway. I think you will be much happier with someone else!