So my ex broke up with me about 2 weeks ago and has even told me he started seeing someone else.. I was so crushed.. however when we wld talk (we work together) I wld ask about us and he wld tell me he doesn't want to talk about us right now that all we can be is friends right now and maybe in the future we can be something else.. he broke up with me because he saw guys on my. phone complimenting me and automatically assumed I had a thing with them.. he tells me he cnt trust me right now... however in the times weve hung out he has hugged me tight and kissed me.. I asked days later again about us and he told me to stop pressuring him and to give him space to deal with his issues.. it sucks because he seems like he doesn't know what he wants.. he's talking to this girl he just met (who is also leaving him for 2 wks and she cnt explain why) yet has also kissed me... I wish I knew what was really going on in his mind.. how do I give him space without smothering? How do I make him want me? Why does he cut me off Everytime I ask about working things out etc... what do u think is going on and how can I prove to him or make him see what he is missing without being too far apart or smothering? Please help!!!
How can you define what your ex bf really wants without pressuring him?
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I'm only 17 so I'm just going to try my best at this... If he's hugging and kissing you after the break up obviously he still feels something. But if he just broke up with you because he saw guys complimenting you and assumed you had a thing with them then just forget about the whole thing. He has trust issues and it isn't your fault. Specially if you keep asking him about "us" and he gives you silly excuses every time. The only way, in my opinion, to prove to this guy on what he is missing out is to move on to a new person like he allegedly has. That would completely throw him off because it's not him that you want to be with anymore. And in my opinion, girls shouldn't have to prove anything to guys if they are the ones that have the problem. I hope this helps :)0
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