we've been married 23 months and i saw a message my husband had sent to a friend saying he takes the marriage one day at a time and that marriage is really hard and that he think he made a mistake... i know marriage is hard but should it be that hard this early on for him? and does the comment one day at a time mean anything or just simply an expression?
Most Helpful Guy
I say "one day at a time" because I never rush head first into anything, I know everything has a start, middle and an end, nothing lasts forever! So I only ever focus on the day ahead and that goes for anything in life, not just relationships.
Some people are forever looking towards the future, but I'm not like those people. I don't live for the future, I live for the present.0
Most Helpful Girl
What you should focus on is that he's still with you. The fact that he might feel overwhelmed is NOT something you can fix. Let him feel what he feels and in the meantime you be yourself - NOT his wife but YOU! Remind him of why he feel for your personality by small actions :-)0