My ex broke up with me about 2 weeks ago because he saw random guys on my. phone and assumed the worst in me... he doesn't trust me now... as I read my. old txts I now realize Everytime he tried to make the effort to spend time with me I kind of pushed away due to my own insecurities, I had trust issues and Cldnt believe a guy like that really liked me (he's those type to open your door, bring flowers just bcuz) etc... well we broke up and now I miss him sooo much.. we've hung out before after the breakup (I asked to hangout) and we've hugged and kissed at the end of the night but when I ask the next day or another day he gets mad and says he doesn't want to talk about it that him and so can only be friends and maybe in the future we can be more.. he's told me im never going to change, he's told me before to give him his space and not push him away.. how do I show him when he doesn't allow himself to see... I've told him I'll get it for you.. he says you dnt have to do that I'll say "I know I want to".. how do I show him I love him without being smothering? Today (we work together) he told me "your hair looks nice today" and smiled... I wish he cld just spend time with me but if I do I dnt want to pressure him.. he's been really stressed with his job as well.. please help
I totally messed up somebody help me?
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you should tell him about how insecure you felt when you two were in a relationship together. you should told him that a long time ago so he could understand where he stood with you. right now, you need to get your feelings for him cleared up before you can think clearly and know where to start from with this guy. let him know hat you will wait for him, let him know how much you love him. hiding it doesn't really help, believe me. if he knows how you feel then, maybe he will reconsider or soften up a bit.
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