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Alright... sounds like you two have been together for a good amount of time, two years shows that you can make things work for that long. HOWEVER< from a girls stand point she broke up with you, you said that she wants to hang out and party and have fun and not be tied down... it's kind of like the classic, The lawns always greener on the other side, the reason your lawn ain't green is because you aren't watering it right... to be honest I think that it's her loss, break ups seriously hurt but the point is that they take time, the fact that she asked if you ever saw a future again with her is letting her know that she will always have you to jump back to at any moment, in relationships it's not supposed to be like that, you're basically letting her know that she can do her thing and have fun maybe date around but there's a pretty good chance that you'll be up to give it another go you know? And there's nothing wrong with that at all, but its kind of like you wouldn't leave the door cracked open in the winter right? (Sorry, weird analogies or whatever haha) I'm glad that you told her you need space, but you need to let her come back to you, she broke up with you which shows that you were MORE into her than she was into you, does that make sense? By showing that you're not going to be available it;ll show strength on your part, don't text her at all, I'd write her number down and put it somewhere safe in your room, then delete it off your phone so that if you get the urge to text her, you'll have to really think about it first. (this worked for me in one situation). In my honest opinion, if you really want her back you have to let her do the groveling and the beckoning, she needs to show YOU that she wants you just as bad, sometimes it helps to just take the positives and negatives out of the relationship, for example, what did you like and what did you dislike? Sometimes those can help put things into perspective as well. Let her come to you though.