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it sounds like the guy was seeing someone else along with you. Maybe you were just one last hurrah before he got with the other girl.
If you slept with him and he left you like that then yes you got played. If he just lead you on and then pulled a disappearing act then he is still being a douche but not as much as if he lead you on, slept with you, then left you hanging.
Honestly unless you get a straight story from this guy you are never going to know, and Ill bet you money he won't ever come clean. Id stop worrying about it and move on, it will save you head ache and heart ache.
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